Relationship

We belong to a group of animals which live in groups , I mean social animals. That has led to great success of our species create and destroy what we want collectively developed relationships. ( antina nantu -- DR Bendre)they are strange never remained same with circumstances it will change, some time these relations look like very stable and strong and bring out wonderful things out of us. Same relationships can be spoiled in no time , with a simple comment or listening to some one else.Relationship is like a cast iron; very strong, you can not bend it but if it falls down it will break. When relations sore, I feel like a single animal instead of social animal ha ha.We cant live in isolation, we need relationships, at the same time we need maturity to understand strength and weakness of relationship to get it going. At the end of the day the great social animals like us are also individuals; we live together but we don't think together nor our brains don't express emotions similar to given circumstances. This further makes it much difficult to understand your fellow human being. A bomb blast --- "ho no" , one says, another- mera train ka kya hoga , so we cant expect second person to as sensitive as first one. But we always try to look for the people who responds like us to given situation and we will appreciate it. Relations strength vary with age also. A teenager finds everything his or her friend doing is right, once hormone levels go down many differences surface--- after all we are animals most of our days actions are controlled by our instincts so we bark like animals instead of think like humans. So relationships are need to be handled with much care and maturity-- failures are there but we need relationships to go on --- to see the bright side of our social engagements. Keep looking for good relationships for difficult time--